emotional intimacy
having a conversation on what they want and need from the relationship/asking questions to help validate venting
intellectual intimacy
debating and discussing social and existential issues/ reading a book together and discussing the content
spiritual intimacy
discussing ethics sense of purpose and personal definition of spiritual/ reading a few passages from their religious text
experiential intimacy
training for sports/cooking meals together/ exploring a city together.
however, which do you is more important in your life and why?
It's intellectual intimacy for me. Being able to discuss complex books and ideas without putting filters is so cool.
For me, I think emotional intimacy is most important but everyone needs a balance :)